January 5, 2015

Girl, just be YOU!

                               
Define good girls...Everybody has an opinion about a good girl..so whats yours?

When I stumbled upon this topic on Indispire, I couldn't help but pour my thoughts!


Is she a good girl or a bad!? They see, they judge and then they often put labels based on few preconceived notions. Who are they? It's you and me and anyone who sees and judges and labels! A girl is just a girl. Let her be. Good and bad are extreme ends. Humans cannot be pure white or jet black. We all have within us shades of grey. With which we paint our thoughts, emotions and actions.

Each one of us has a good and bad side. They are merely two sides of the same coin.  It's the circumstances that define which part surfaces and what lies beneath. A girl is judged for how she behaves, the way she dresses, the friends she makes or the type of job she does. There can never be a common ground to define the good or bad in a girl. She has the right to choose and decide and live life at her consent.

As girls we are expected to be everything: Obedient daughters, caring wives, dutiful daughter in laws, loving sisters,  doting mothers etc etc...Between all these relationships it's easy to loose your own identity. But let's not forget, the most important and longest relationship is the one we share with ourself. Let the world judge, meanwhile make time for yourself and just be the girl you really deserve to be!



11 comments:

  1. beautiful... and i also think its all about being you. because being true to yourself what define your identity, not what other think of you. and people also acknowledge you if you being true to yourself, otherwise they are always here to judge you.

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    1. So true that is! Thanks for stopping by:))

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  2. Be yourself. Do not lose your individuality in the process of becoming a "good" girl.

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  3. One girl , multiple duties and multiple roles according to the situation. A loving sister,sweet daughter,caring mother and a lifelong partner.Good or bad she will do the duty put forth before her in any of the above forms, she can't be rude . She will fight the battles in the dark which aren't visible to the world but still she spread the same smile each and every morning.
    Nice and encouraging post Sonal, I hope this will touch those who are in need if encouragement.

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    1. Thanks Prasanna! It's good to know about your views
      !:) WE need men to respect what a girl does.

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  4. Very well penned thoughts Sonal..:) All the very best to you :)

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  6. Respect is earned by girls ,and they only deserves it forever. It is only a GIRL who can bear a child and makes him a legend and a good citizen. The reason for the existence and a walking love is mother (girl) . I hope everyone I mean everyone from all the countries agree with this .
    Once again thank you Sonal ,you made a crystal clear view to us once again about the importance of a GIRL :)

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